Singles are super curious when it comes to love, dating, courtship, marriage and sex, yes, sex! But are too afraid to ask lest someone calls them black minded, carnal, lusty, bitchy or something worse! Yet, these questions are left banging around your brain! That’s why lots of singles engage in premarital sex just to satisfy curiosity or fall cheaply to the lies of sex perverts to their own peril! (Yes, premarital sex is sexual perversion!)
You need answers! Desperately! How do you satisfy your curiosity without removing your pants or compromise your standard? That’s why I wrote this article.
I love to go where angels fear to thread! When it comes to sexual issues, trust me, I will give it to you white and black, no coloring, no lies, no hiding, no mincing words, just truth, pure truth. What your church refuses to teach, I will teach you and even add jara. Oya, let’s go!
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #1: WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL ABOUT SEX?
Father! So much big deal! It’s sweet, delicious and very close to heaven when one achieve orgasm after every encounter. Sex is part of love. It is called love making, and the only place allowed to make love is in marriage. I love sex, as in, love it!
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #2: MUST I WAIT FOR MARRIAGE BEFORE HAVING SEX?
Oh yes, my darling! You must! That is God’s standard and social media won’t change it! There are lots of headache in premarital sex. Fear of being caught, unwanted pregnancy, abortion, rejection, and all manner of brouhaha I don’t like talking about. You wont even enjoy it! How will you relax and enjoy sex when you know your mama would die of heart attack when you get pregnant or your poor dad may weep you threw your virginity to the dogs! Something a godly man ought to pay your bride price for and honour him forever for training you well but now…
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #3: WHAT’S THE BIG DEAL ABOUT VIRGINITY? IS IT STILL RELEVANT?
Till Jesus comes, it will be relevant! If you have an opportunity to shop for nice, brand new, super quality, expensive, beautiful clothes in Dubai, will you opt for Okrika bend down select at Super, Abule Egba, Lagos! The trust, excitement and joy of being and marrying a virgin is equal to none! You earn your spouse’s trust and respect forever!
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #4: OKAY, I’VE HAD SEX IN MY PAST, DOES THAT MEAN I WON’T HAVE A GREAT MARRIAGE?
As long as you repented because some won’t repent, they keep having sex like crazy while shaming virgins and claim they have character. As long as you realized you sinned, turned to God to clean you up, genuinely repented, stopped having sex, develop, godly, beautiful, admirable character and you are pure in and out. You are a brand new virgin before God and you will definitely have a blissful, super rosy, super successful marriage (2 Corinthians 5:17).
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #5: I AM A VIRGIN, MY FINGER, CANNOT ENTER MY VAGINA, HOW WILL A PENIS ENTER WHEN I GET MARRIED?
It’s so simple. Your vagina is very elastic and stretches to the point of accommodating a baby’s head at birth. Penis is made up of flesh, no bone, just flesh and when properly used, will have a smooth sail to its destination. No need to practice sex to get some experience before marriage at all, you don’t need it. With some good knowledge, sex in marriage will be muuuuaaaah!
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #6: AS A GUY WHO HAS NEVER HAD SEX, HOW WILL I ENJOY SEX WHEN I KNOW NOTHING ABOUT SEX?
Hubby knew nothing about sex before marriage and that guy has been driving me wild for almost a decade. With good books and counselling (if necessary, good books are enough), you will enjoy sex. Just seeing her naked body on your wedding night is enough to split your hormones and set your body on fire! No one taught Adam how to have sex, he just knew where to touch and put it.
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #7: WHEN SHOULD I LEARN ABOUT SEX?
Close to wedding like about 3 months to so your imaginations won’t start running wild and you start masturbating!
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #8 : HELP! I MASTURBATE A LOT, HOW CAN I STOP?
Simple. Stop watching or listening to anything romantic, stop all romantic, dirty, flirty chats. End all ungodly relationships, read your bible at least 3 times a day, fast and pray at least, 3 days a week. Discipline your flesh!
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #9: I AM ADDICTED TO SEX, PLEASE, HOW CAN I STOP?
Ask Jesus to help you. Give your life to Jesus. Dedicate this weekend to fasting and prayer! Ask the Lord to come into your life, sanctify your heart and make you a brand new person. End all ungodly friendship, they will drag you in the mud. Read your Bible at least 3 times a day and fast at least 3 days a week. Discipline your flesh!
SINGLES AND SEX QUESTION #1: SOME PEOPLE SAY, YEARS AFTER MARRIAGE, SEX WILL BE BORING, IS IT TRUE?
It depends on the type of marriage you have. When there is love, trust and mutual respect, you want to make love every single day of your life and enjoy it. Sex gets more thrilling, passionate, hot and your whole body keeps asking for more!
There is nothing like a godly marital sex, none!
All sex outside marriage is sinful, bad, unholy and unfulfilling. All sex must be done in marriage and with the right spouse, you will love every bit of it.
Wait for sex in marriage, it is worth waiting for. Do not lose your chastity for anything in the world!
I hope I have answered some questions you are too shy or afraid to ask? I love you so much.
Thanks for reading. God bless you. Cheers!
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© Seun Oladele,